Sit beside me IDEAS
for preschoolers age 2-4 years
engaging activities and toys with minimal prep (or none at all) for the parents who need a fast fix!
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Wooden Slide Puzzle
I love any activity that comes with task cards. In this Montessori STEM puzzle, the child looks at the task card and slides the pieces around to make their board match the card. It comes with a sand timer to make it in to a game. There are two sides, one side with shapes and the other with colors. This is challenging and fun!
Age
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4 years +
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Task cards give kids direction so you don't have to.
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The pieces freely move in the board, but are secure. and wont fall out.
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The box is sturdy and closes nicely containing the pieces
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Great for logic and strategy!
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The sand timer is a little fast for my 4 year old. Maybe offer another type of timer.
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My 2 year old enjoyed sliding the pieces around but did not understand the concept of matching the cards.
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I recommended 4 years and up but some even younger may enjoy using this toy.
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Sticks and Bands
In this activity your child uses rubber bands, craft sticks and play-doh to practice counting.
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3 years +
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Low prep for long term use.
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Few materials.
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Practices number recognition, sequencing, counting, and fine motor skills.
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The BEST to-go activity.
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Keep this in a zipper pouch and bring it with you. Great for restaurants.
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Craft sticks
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Tiny rubber bands
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Marker
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Playdoh
Magnet Maze Blueprints
Any activity with a task card can ideally turn in to a Sit Beside Me Activity. Which is why I made some of my own to go with the magnet maze activity. Kids look at the cards to help them build mazes using magnetic tiles and a cookies sheet.
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3 years +
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Task cards give kids direction so you don't have to
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The cards are a digital download
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Variety of difficulty so it is great for many ages
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Love this for color matching practice
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My kids needed me to show them how to do a few cards before they really got the hang of it. Even then my two year old still needed some guidance. BUT my 2 year old really liked building the color maze
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Add a timer to make it in to a game
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Digital Download of blueprint cards. Click the "Make it Button"
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magnetic tiles
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magnetic cookie sheet
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round object to roll in maze
Robot Sticker Book
This"color by letter" sticker book encourages letter recognition as they build their robot and includes a joke on each page.
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3 years +
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Letter recognition
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To-go activity! This would be great for restaurants.
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Perforated pages
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Spiral bound so the pages lay flat making it is easy for kids to work on.
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Includes jokes on each page!
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As with most stickers, some younger kids may need help peeling off the stickers from the page.
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Spirograph Jr.
I totally remember doing these as a kid. Easy enough to do independently for a 3 year old but a 2 year old may enjoy with a little direction.
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3 years +
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All the pieces fit inside a carrying case.
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To-go activity! This would be great for restaurants.
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Gears fit together easily so the kids can do it themselves.
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This is the Jr. version so the gears are larger and thicker. Perfect for these smaller hands.
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Mental Blox
Any type of guided building activity is great for Sit Beside Me. The child looks at different cards and builds what they see. Even though the box states it is for ages 5+ the cards vary in difficulty so I recommend starting as early as age 2.
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2 years +
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Cards vary in difficulty
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A great product for multiple kids with different skill levels
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If you do have time to engage in this activity with your child, the cards offer extension questions to ask your child about what they built.
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There is a Mental Blox Jr product available that I have not tried.
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Magnetic Ring Game
Any type of guided building activity is great for Sit Beside Me. The child looks at different cards and builds what they see. They use the magnets' repelling forces to make the magnets "float" on the stick. This can be played with one or more players.
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3 years +
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Low prep to set up
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Cards vary in difficulty
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A great product for multiple kids with different skill levels
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Kids experience repelling and attracting magnetic forces.
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I recommended for age 3 and up because I think that is the age they would understand how to build the picture on the card, however my 2-year-old just likes stacking the magnets and building her own tower.
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Color Wonder Paintbrush Pens
If you are familiar with the Color Wonder products offered by Crayola but have not tried these paintbrush pens, you need to! My kids enjoy Crayola's regular mess-free Color Wonder markers but they fight over these paintbrush pens!
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12 months +
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Low prep
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Kids can color or "paint" and you don't have to worry about a mess
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Must use with the Color Wonder special paper. The item linked comes with some.
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I searched high and low for these on Amazon but could not find them; the link is Target.
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They also sell some regular ink washable paintbrush pens
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Consider multiple packs if you have multiple kids
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Product linked. Click the "Buy it!" button.
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Extra Crayola Color Wonder paper sold separately
Paint by Sticker
This is similar to color by numbers but with stickers! My kids love stickers and still aren't super great at it so this one can take a while, giving you time to work!
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4 years +
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Kids like stickers
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Other themes available
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Practices numbers
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The numbers to match can go pretty high, like up in to the 50s. You may need to help younger ones the first time.
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Toy Kitchen Sink
This is a toy sink that actually works! You fill the base with water, flip the handle and water actually comes out of the faucet.
Age
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12 months +
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Low prep
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It comes with the dishes
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Kids LOVE this!
This will occupy your kids for a while if you don't mind the mess.
Put down a towel first.
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Batteries
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Towel
Tangrams
Building pictures with shapes. Another guided building activity. I recommend buying the magnetic version.
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3 years +
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ZERO prep activity
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It's magnetic
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I have used the pieces for other types of activities
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I have not tried this exact set. Mine is NOT magnetic and but I wish it was.
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Magnetic Maze
The child uses a magnetic wand to move the magnetic balls around the maze. This maze is color coded. Each number has a color and spot for them to try to move specific number of balls into. The magnetic wand is attached to the board!
Age
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2 years +​
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ZERO prep activity
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Kids like magnetic things
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Reinforces numbers, colors and counti
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The exact magnetic maze we have is sold out on Amazon so I linked a similar one.
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Melissa and Doug also have a fantastic magnetic maze but I like this brand better because the board is a little smaller. We use this in the car and at restaurants.
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Hot Dots Jr Pre-K
Your child uses a Hot Dot pen to choose their answer on the Hot Dot page. The pen will light up green if the correct answer is chosen and red if incorrect. This gives immediate feedback to your child WITHOUT YOUR HELP! (jazz hands) I recommended this for age 4+ but a 3-year-old could do some of it if they know their alphabet well.
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4 years +
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ZERO Prep
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Hot Dots offers a variety of subjects and ages
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The product linked here COMES with the pen. One Hot Dot pen works on all Hot Dot products
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Hot Dots JR
This comes with cards to practice patterns and sequencing. It is a multiple choice answer using a Hot Dot pen to pick your answer. You push the Hot Dot pen on the dot you want to pick and the face will light up green if you choose the correct answer and red if incorrect. This gives immediate feedback to your child WITHOUT YOUR HELP! (jazz hands)
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2 years +
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ZERO prep
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Kids will play with for many years
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Other packs available (colors, numbers, alphabet)
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This pack linked does not come with the pen. It is sold separately.
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You only need one pen for all Hot Dots products.
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Hot Dots pen (sold separately)
Make a Face
Melissa and Doug make these great sticker pads where you make a face choosing from different stickers of facial features and accessories. If you want this to be a true independent activity I recommend for age 4+. Otherwise your little one will probably ask you to help peel off each sticker. However, these are great to have on hand for younger ages with parent involvement.
Age
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4 years +
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ZERO prep
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Other packs available
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They also have build a meal, animal face and more
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Button Art
Your toddler can create art independently. The buttons are big enough for tiny hands to hold. The set comes with multiple pictures to complete. The hole on the picture is surrounded by a color for the child to match.
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12 months +
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ZERO prep
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Art without the mess
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Many pictures included
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Color matching
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While the buttons are large, they are still a choking hazard. As always, watch your children.
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Pom Drop
This is a popular one and all over Pinterest. But it's a good one. I had cardboard tubes taped to the side of my kitchen cabinet for a year at least. My kids would sit there and drop the variety of sized poms down the multiple tubes while I worked. Put this in the kitchen, the side of your desk...wherever you need!
Age
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Materials
12 months +
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Low prep
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Can use with any objects that will fit down a toilet paper tube
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Will entertain a variety of ages
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Challenge older kids to use tongs or spoons to pick up the poms
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Can also tape regular sheets of paper to the wall as tunnels
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Cardboard tubes
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Tape
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Poms or other objects
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Optional - tongs, spoons
Kinetic Sand
This is an easy sensory bin that keeps my kids occupied for a good amount of time. Just throw in dinosaurs, cars, characters, scoops...literally WHATEVER.
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2 years +
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Low prep activity
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It has the feeling of sand but behaves like Play-Doh. Easy clean up!
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The box I have linked comes with toys.
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I would get the kinetic sand set that comes with some sand, a box to keep it in and toys (linked). When you are done you just fold it up and put it away.
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The set I have linked doesn't come with much sand. I would buy additional pack of sand.
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Kinetic sand set (linked)
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Toys to put in the sand
Spice Jar Drop
Take an old spice jar and fill it with cake pop sticks. Thats it! Let them drop the sticks through the holes.
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9 months +
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Low prep
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To-go activity!
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Small enough to fit in diaper bag
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Use a spice jar with two types of dispensers on the lid. One flap with smaller holes, and one flap with a larger pouring hole so they can get the sticks out on their own.
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Order plenty of sticks for replacement.
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Spice container
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Cake pop sticks